I summarised Elliot's post in my mind as a form of reflecting on how a decision affects you over differing time horizons, as well as the second-order consequences of a decision. I would add to his bullet list of reasons to return home if you plan on having kids: going home for kids retains more of your discretionary time.
Having kids is a transformative experience and as such by its very nature you can't fully predict how you'll come out the other side of it. Elliot's post does a good job of stepping that out for us, and lilly's comments ask some valuable questions about messaging: appealing to older folks that are not EA-aware could be better reached. I resonate with both paragraphs of lilly's comment. At the time of my reply I can see three detractors from lilly's comments -- I'd like to have read their responses here why they disagreed.
Thanks James and Miles, I appreciate your summary at the start of this post. Good to read this and important work to attempt to validate the core aims of the conference. Couple of ideas for survey tweaks:
Yeah, fair point. No doubt there's sub-groups that signs up because they like signing up to things, or liked the idea at the time but lost interest etc. These folks won't engage no matter what time horizon.
But equally there are sub-groups that are insufficiently engaged at the moment due to circumstances constraining them - major life changes (job change/loss, marriage/divorce, adding or losing family members). These folks would be coming out of such circumstances eventually and at that point would be looking to engage. My over-1-year-late reply is an example of this!