I recently realized that saving money to build reasonable wealth is a priority in my life that I want to pursue alongside giving significantly. I want to feel independence from the need to work in my current job, be confident about buying a house for a family someday, be in a position to help family in need etc.
Saving and giving are two pots I would like to balance out. I am currently completely unsure about how much I should reasonably save and how much savings I need to reach my goals.
Can you recommend resources, rules of thumb that you follow etc. to find my personally right saving rate?
Having that sorted would make me feel much more secure about my giving.
I suppose this would depend on the specifics of the society one lives in - is the social safety net rarely used and not under strain because everybody is generally prosperous and it exists just in case? Or is it already strained and failing to catch some? At least in the latter case EAs making risky choices and ending up putting avoidable pressures on the social safety net would come at a direct cost to underprivileged individuals, kinda like flower-children relying on free neighborhoods clinics in the 60's ended up hurting local community access to basic healthcare.
I'm also skeptical by default o any EA exceptionalism - I donate much so I am allowed to offload risks onto society could become "I donate much so I never tip/settle small debts/generally freeride in minor ways whenever I can". For me the strength of the basic EA pitch has always been its universalizability and full compatibility with otherwise respectable, responsible, others-friendly lifestyle.