I argue that you shouldn't accuse your interlocutor of being insufficiently truth-seeking. This doesn't mean you can't internally model their level of truth-seeking and use that for your own decision-making. It just means you shouldn't come out and say "I think you are being insufficiently truth-seeking".
What you should say instead
Before I explain my reasoning, I'll start with what you should say instead:
"You're wrong"
People are wrong a lot. If you think they are wrong just say so. You should have a strong default for going with this option.
"You're being intentional misleading"
For when you basically thinking they are lying but maybe technically aren't by some definitions of "lying".
What about if they are being unintentionally misleading? That's usually just being wrong, you should probably just say they are being wrong. But if you really think the distinction is important, you can say they are being unintentionally misleading.
"You're lying"
For when they are lying.
You can also add your own flair to any of these options to spice things up a bit.
Why you shouldn't accuse people of being insufficient truth-seeking
Clarity
It's not clear what you are even accusing them of. "Insufficient truth-seeking" could arguably be any of the options I mentioned above. Just be specific. If you really think what you're saying is so important and nuanced and you just need to incorporate some deep insight about truth, use the "add your own flair" option to sneak that stuff in.
Achieving your purpose in the discussion
The most common purposes you might have for engaging in the discussion and why invoking "truth-seeking" doesn't help them:
You want to discuss the object-level issue
You just fucked yourself because the discussion is immediately going to center on whether they actually are insufficiently truth-seeking and whether that accusation was justified. You're going to have to gather The Fellowship, take your argument to Mordor, and throw it into the fire of NEVER GO META before you're ever going to be able to discussion the object level again.
You want to discuss your interlocutor's misconduct
You again fucked yourself because:
- It's not clear what misconduct you are accusing them of.
- Because of the ambiguity they are going to try to make it seem like you're accusing them of more than what you intended, and therefore actually it's you who isn't being truth-seeking, and you're even accusing them of that in bad faith!
- Because your statement is about "truth-seeking" instead of the actual misconduct, observers who agree with your interlocutor on the object level but might be sympathetic to your misconduct allegation are going to find it harder to agree with you on the meta issue. You are muddying the object-meta waters instead of tackling the meta-level issue you want to address head-on.
Conclusion
Don't accuse your interlocutor of being insufficiently truth-seeking. Just say they are wrong instead.
Very accurate and succinct summary of the issue.
Good point. I think actually there is an entire class of related jargon for which something like the above applies. For example, I think its often a bad idea to say stuff like:
And other similar comments. I think clarity issue around some types of jargon are related to your next point. People pickup on ideas that are intuitive but still very rough. This can often mean that the speaker feels super confident in their meaning but it is confusing to the reader because they may interpret these rough ideas differently.
I also feel something similar to what you say where people seem to jump on ideas rather quickly and run with them, whereas my reaction is, don't you want to stress test this a bit more before giving it the full-send? I view this as a significant cultural/worldview difference that I perceive between myself and a lot of EAs, which I sometimes think of as a "do-er" vs "debater" dichotomy. I think EA strongly emphasizes "doing", whereas I'm not going to be beating the "debater" allegations anytime soon. I think worldview is upstream of my takes on the ongoing discussions around reaching out to orgs. I think the concept of "winning" expressed here is also related to a strong "doing over debating" view.
I think its inherently challenging to think of truth-seeking as a terminal value. Its under-specified, truth-seeking about what? How quickly paint dries? I think it makes more sense to think about constraints requiring truthfulness. Following on from this, I think trying to "improve epistemics" by trying to enforce "high standards" can be counterproductive because it gets in the way of the natural "marketplace of ideas" dynamic that often fuels and incentives good epistemics. The view of "truth-seeking" as this kind of quantitative thing that you want really high values of I think can cause confusion in this regard, making people think communities high in "truth-seeking" must therefore have "high standards".
I think this is often the case. Perhaps related to my more "debater" mentality, it seems to me like people in EA sometimes do something with their criticism where they think they are softening it, but they do so in a way that makes the actual claim insanely confusing. I think "truth-seeking" is partial downstream from this, because its not straight-up saying "you're being bad faith here" and thus feels softer. I wish people would be more "all the way in or all the way out". Either stick to just saying someone is wrong or straight-up accuse them of whatever you think they are doing. I think on balance that might mean doing the second one more than people do now, but perhaps doing the ambiguous version less.