personal, maybe
"He was such a radical vegan that he would even let mosquitoes bite him without killing them. He’d think: 'It’s less than a milliliter of blood and maybe a touch of dengue.' So, he dedicated everything to saving animals and felt amazing—like a hero—yet often left his own mother suffering in constant pain without so much as a word of comfort." (I’m speaking in the third person to see if I can make myself better understood.)
It might sound like sarcasm, but I really was that extreme.
I now see that I cannot invest everything in every cause. So, I tried to understand why I seemed to place so much importance on animals and so little on human beings. Here are six reasons:
I didn't consider that, in the universe, in nature, a human being can be extremely valuable and rare; I could say that 0.0000001% of species exhibit our mental capacity. (90 to 95% confidence)
Bonus: I don't know of any animal that can save as many animals as a human being. A human being can cause a lot of harm, but can also save thousands of animals. (90-99% confidence)
Human beings can be destructive, yet our capacity for construction, empathy, and cooperation is unique in the history of the known universe. A trillion animals cannot save a single human, but one human can save a trillion animals. That is precisely why I value our conversation so highly, and why I will devote all my energy to considering your points and updating my beliefs.
I have also been investing more effort into mitigating the biases that make me less empathetic and more destructive. (Double negatives can be tricky sometimes.)