Thank you, you have responded very thoughtfully! Re "either they should have condemned it wholeheartedly, or said nothing," good on you to call out the implicature of non-statements. I think the dehumanizing nature of boilerplate-like speech goes generally unacknowledged.
It is calamitous that while candid critical questioning can be considered calm and composed, working within a parameter of imperative public positivity ends up sounding sarcastic if the scrutinizer isn't skilled at "the spin." The passive voice is not liked by anyone, and least of all by me.
Hi Amit, I think people might be downvoting you because they don't see James' comment as indicating support for CEA or a similarity in this area between GWWC and CEA.
I'm actually also not sure what part of his comment gave you that indication, but maybe you have some context you can share? I'm not able to weigh in.
Despite the leaf showing your profile is new, I get a hunch from your post history that you have some longer engagement with EA, not that you're an opp who has come from afar to criticize as much as possible about the movement. If something in your experience with EA has jaded you, I would value hearing your story.
I think at this time, we both come across as passive aggressive towards EA in general. If you're able to, I would recommend getting someone to review your posts/comments before you post them, so that they come across in a way that's more aligned with the tone of the forum. I would get feedback on my posts myself, but if I were to share my posts with the people in my life, I would not be able to answer their questions about why I am posting or what I am trying to change. So I am just trying to keep things as positive and indirect as I can. Judging from the karma on my comment a few days ago, I think I'm not really hitting the mark.
Just scrolling down the Community page and found this older quick take. I wanted to throw in an "agree from personal experience" comment. I wasn't targeted, i.e., I found EA organically by looking up related terms when I was 22. But I really wish I found it when I was 5-10 years older! I think I jumped the gun financially on some donations and personally-funded projects in ways that made me overly vulnerable and less effective.
I took on some debt to self-fund some of my philanthropy advising and career exploration, and that made an exit from an EA group house and an exit from an EA organization both much more stressful than they otherwise would have been. I naively ignored how my lack of financial power could affect these relationships because I generalized the community as "high trust." I accepted surprising things in both situations that were very unfavourable medium-term and long-term, because they were short-term safer financially during a period of several major overlapping stressors.
Even though I have a sense of urgency around effective cause areas and I want to move on them, I am making myself develop a stable financial position before I reengage -- at least as stable as the median highly-engaged EA.
Frances, thank you SO MUCH for coming forward with this, and for your detailed discussion of how such a prominent organization handled a case like this. I am not sure how many people are unable to write posts like this. I really, really appreciate it.
I am seeing this post a couple months late because I radically stepped back from the EA community in August. As much as this post has shaken me (literally), I am so grateful that it's here to read and that I got to read it.
On a personal note (which I'll circle back from), I miss everyone! There was a time last summer that I was bed-bound by a week-long anxiety-driven vasovagal episode that I told everyone was food poisoning. As much as I want to go back to EAGs and Slack channels, my body threatens me with something similar whenever I think about it. (To anyone whose emails I've ignored, I'm really sorry!) I even spent almost the entire Vancouver Summit hiding in a locked room, even though I helped host it in a building that's a second home to me. Like, the keys to that building are on my keychain every day, I have slept in it, I loved so many people at that event... but even there, I couldn't face anyone who might ask me what I've been up to and why it's not the same as it used to be.
Circling back, I don't know if you remember me from EAGs, but I remember meeting you "a few Bostons ago" at an afterparty. It's not just that you're a ray of sunshine, it's also that seeing you in a prominent position as a candid young woman gave me hope for what I might be able to do. I hope that energy propagates in the community... but I mostly hope you do really well going forward. Because to me, you've been a cornerstone of this community, and I think whichever communities have people like you in them will do good better. So if you have any difficulty engaging with the community in ways that remind you of what happened, I wish you all the healing, and I also know that any other directions you put your energy into instead will blossom.
Hi James S., this is a lovely comment. Please keep me updated on how GWWC's safeguarding, whistleblowing and harassment policies support and encourage things like seeking accountability and sharing courageously/honestly. I can't find them on the website very easily anymore, but I'm sure I just misplaced the link.
Could you let all of us know whether GWWC currently participates in any practises like:
It would be great if you could address these potential strategies for preventing harassment and discrimination in our community.
James, you and Sjir were particularly supportive to me when I left GWWC, and I am very grateful for you both. I continue to structure my giving around the GWWC principles, even though I ended my pledge.
For good measure of course, it would be great to hear from CEA, AIM, and any other large orgs in our community about their policies regarding discrimination/harassment, training and support from external experts in supporting members of marginalized communities, COIs, and NDAs. But just seeing your supportive comment here, I am especially interested in all of us being able to hear about how GWWC models this.
Thanks so much!
Hi Peter, I found this old post in my bookmarks! I went through your post history and couldn't find the time when you clearly became more supportive of x-risk research, but you run IAPS now. I am still sympathetic to a lot of what you say in this old post, so I was wondering if you could describe when you became more supportive of x-risk work and why?
I will add: Have a very clear contract between the founding members of the house about who pays rent to the landlord (every tenant directly, or one tenant who is paid by other tenants), subletting rules, who is responsible for finding the sublets or successors for their own bedrooms when they leave, and especially:
whether founders remain responsible for finding successors for their own bedrooms after the mandatory lease period with the landlord is over (adding emphasis here!), or whether the founder (or founders) who stays longest is responsible for maintaining the finances and existence of the group house on their own
Ideally, have this contract notarized. But definitely don't have a verbal agreement on it, and definitely don't make assumptions about what it means to have a joint intention to keep the house going into the future.