EA being a male-dominated community is starting to wear on me. What can I do?

Advice column which answers two questions:

1. Advice to a young woman on how to mitigate the effects of gendered or offensive comments from men in the EA community
2. Advice on choosing between spending time with a new boyfriend vs spending time at work

Read it here: https://ealifestyles.substack.com/p/ea-lifestyles-advice-column

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