Intuitively, I think 3 > 1 > 2. Mentor quality differs between institutions; as does learning speed; as does the network you leave with (i.e. your classmates and mentors).
If you are psychologically able to put in the work for a good GPA at the good school, that seems like an excellent thing to do. If you find out that it's not psychologically sustainable for you to do, you can adjust your plans accordingly. It's not obvious to me that you are currently able to assess your GPA correctly - maybe you significantly over- or underestimate what results you will end up with.
However, according to some EAs, chasing a high GPA is mostly for signaling rather than improving my research abilities, because some college courses are irrelevant to AI risks.(I'm uncretain about this view)
I'd personally strongly disagree with this. I think a core problem of some EA work is that it keeps reinventing the wheel; that it overlooks important existing literatures; and that it struggles to illustrate its relevance to existing fields (and thus is not picked up or well regarded by researchers). A decent university education in the field you wanna engage in will be helpful even if it includes courses that do not currently seem directly AI research related - it may help you gain the ability to understand and persuade future colleagues in the field, for example.
Option D: dont attend any university and just get to work. The value of university degrees, even purely for signalling, are at an all-time low and descending. For learning, you can do free online video courses.
There are highly valuable tasks AI researchers dont do because they are low status / boring / hard to fund. You could get started on them independently.
You'd need a mentor at some point to avoid wasting time on irrevelant things / to hold you accountable.
I think if you are highly self-motivated, independent, and creative, this could be the best option by an order of magnitude.
The ceiling and floor for outcomes of option D are extreme. Going to university is a good hedge by raising the floor of potential outcomes. Plus, there are some non-negotiable things like having an income above a certain level - something that uni will help with, albeit after some time and school fees.
Something else to consider is that you're based in Taiwan. This means you likely have strong command of Mandarin and could have access to Chinese universities. China is a big player in the AI space, and in terms of international relations, AI and the tech arms race is a frontier between the USA and China. I would reconsider whether the pursuit/signalling of post-grad studies in the USA is the most comparatively advantageous path for influencing AI risk.
For people who disagreed him: Just disagree, don't downvote. Every reply takes time and should be respected. I think downvote should only be used to posts/replies that are obvi usly not serious